12/28/2018

Community Christmas Home Tour

The community I live in does a Christmas Home Tour every year. This is the first year I have
attended. This being my 3rd Christmas here in Florida, I admit I was excited to finally attend.

The idea of people opening their homes to let others walk through them to see their decorations for Christmas seems stressful to me. It is a great deal of work. In addition to excessive decorations, it also requires quite a bit of cleaning and planning.

It was so impressive to see the personality of each home we went through reflected in their Christmas tree, and in many cases, multiple trees. The style of decorating was as unique as the host and hostesses were and each home owner was as personable as the next. There were stories to be told about so many of the items in their homes, how they came to be, where they came from, who made them, etc...

As I toured each home, I tried to catch a few pictures here and there.  I decided, after reviewing them,  to put together a video to share some of the sights with my followers on my blog. It truly was inspiring to see their homes.

May you be inspired to open your homes and your hearts in 2019 to those you know and perhaps to even a few strangers and let your light shine in their lives.  Happy New Year!  Click for Video




12/15/2018

A Novel Reflection for Christmas




T’was the last time A Novel Bunch met before Christmas,
All here was full of holiday cheer
As they sat around the table sharing stories
They laughed, inspired and teared.
And were reminded of all they hold dear.


At the closing of the year with our Book Club we spent quite abit of time talking about Christmas memories and what has stood out in our minds. It is always so revealing and fun to learn what each person finds as their best gift or the one that left an indelible impression on our lives.

We also shared some of our favorite holiday books and movies. With abundance to choice from, many had to pass. As other women spoke up, much agreement was heard when familiar titles were stated.

With such a positive group, it was not surprising that so many of the selections were indeed comedy selections. It sort of epitomizes this club. Though the book selections are across all genres of literary works, the heart of the personality of the women is fun-loving and easy to laughter individuals.

I complied a video to share the selections of this group, one of my favorite clubs to be a part of for sure!  This year I feel I have grown with this group and look forward to continuing this journey with them in 2019.  May you find yourself laughing at some of the selections and memories. Interspersed within the video of the choices they made. Interspersed in the video are some gifts that stood out in members’ minds in Christmas’ long past. Note, none are the high ticketed items that so many have on their wish lists but the small ones given with love. May we all be less focused on the dollar value of the gift this Christmas and more focused on the value of giving. 

Merry Christmas





12/10/2018

Vacation Bliss - Friends Make it Sweeter


If I packed a body in my suitcase, it would not have been any heavier than my suitcase
was from my recent one week cruise. Yes, you read that right, one week cruise pack job by moi! Everything was in there but the kitchen sink, the puppy, and the corner drug store. Oh and dental floss. But I vow never again will I pack that much again as long as I live no matter who is on the ship!


This trip was pretty special though seeing as how it was on my Bucket List. Always have I wanted to go on a cruise with a group, preferably friends. Oh I know every cruise ship has hundreds of passengers on it but I wanted folks I knew going onto the boat. Many find it hard to believe but I can be shy, every once in a while. It is said you make lifelong friends over vacation but I have never really stayed in touch with anyone I have met over a vacation, except my first husband. Oh and I did have two children with him so I guess he did play a pretty dominate place in my life.

So the ship chosen was NCL Bliss, the largest ship they have out on the high seas.  And wow, it is an eyeful, like walking a small neighborhood on the ocean from end to end. The
first few days, it was easy to lose your bearings, especially if you are directionally
challenged like me. So much to do on that boat, if you get bored, there is only one person to blame; check out the mirror!


Being on a boat with a group of folks I really don’t hang out with that much was interesting to see how the week would play out. One of the neighbors, as we all live in an active 55+ Community, is a travel agent who planned the trip,
made the arrangements and was our Julie from the Love Boat. So wonderful how meals, shows and even extra fun things on the ship were scheduled for everyone. She left nothing to chance, planning around ports and everyone’s needs and wants. Betcha her past clients were left crying when she moved south and left her business up north. Sorry ‘bout their luck, our gain!

What a group of fun people, and competitive too!  Four folks played Laser Tag with us along with 3 other young kids and may I proudly say “We kicked butt!”  Losing by one point when one on our team had a gun not working half of the game time is not bad at all. Next game we tied!  And having a cop on the team and two vets on our team, even with three kids, we were dynamite and put SWAT teams to shame! And yes, I and one other woman even had falls to prove we were seriously into the game to win!  Don’t let it be said women are wimps!

It didn’t matter whether it was race car driving, watching Jersey Boys, dancing while music groups were playing at the Atrium, this group threw caution to the wind so I fit
right in. When they threw their hands up and said join in, I did. Life’s motto, “Live it up like each day is your last” was the mantra for the cruise for bliss on Bliss and we all did it up right and proudly.

The warmth of friendship makes the sun of the Caribbean pale in comparison. Whether on an excursion or just killing time on the ship by the pool or various activities with friends from the group, knowing each day ended with time with new friends made each day special like all of them.  And if I packed a body in a suitcase, it would certainly be, on a future vacation, one of them!


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