It is National Pet Day today. So how could the day go by without me talking about my dog Charley? 115 lbs. of love bomb in the house. And honestly, our home, with all its charm, décor and home furnishings, would just not be the same without good ole lovable Charley in it! He is like the child that my husband Jim and I never had together. He is the one teenager that never rejected our love and was not afraid to ever been seen with us. He is the one who will never go away and always want to stay except when he jumps our fence. Funny, never had that issue with the kids! Oh well, dogs are different even if Charley does think he is a person.
Well let’s hit on Charley’s weight. He actually had dropped to 107 lbs. this past
summer. That occurred due to his passion
for swimming in our pool in the backyard, fondly called Charley’s pool. When he is in it, due to his size, he
dominates it. This is the case because
whoever is in it, he prefers making a bee line swimming right at you.
Now labs have large paws with sharp claws, even when their
nails are cut. These nails do not feel wonderful on bare skin. Hence, when in
the swimming pool having Charley coming at you wanting to place them on your
shoulders for leverage to stand and lick your face, it can be painful. So, it
is frequent that he swims alone in the pool.
Our goal, last year
at this time, was to get him off the 125 lb mark of weight. And we did! Our vet said he wanted, one day,
for us to be walking Charley and someone to stop us on the street and say “Why don’t
you feed that dog?” To date, that has
never happened. We are not holding our breath for it to happen either! Our dog likes to eat too much, what the heck
is that vet thinking of! Plus, our neighbors are too nice to ever say such a
thing to us.
With a rugged winter this year, there were far too many handouts of treats to Charley.This is probably why he added back on some of those unwanted unneeded pounds. Charley is weighing in currently at 115. Unfortunately, as soon as the pool cover
comes off, he will be on the low treat, swim team diet.
Some of the weight gain could be attributed to depression though. We have recently redecorated our bedroom.
This entailed moving our furniture around.
Charley made it quite apparent he found this upsetting. For an entire
day, he refused to come out of the walk-in closet except to eat and go outside
to pee, even when he was called out.
See, in the process of moving things around, his doggie bed
was moved to a new location.
No longer was it placed next to his daddy’s side
of the bed or near the window where he could be like a real dog and watch the
world and keep guard of the house. Now it resides at the foot of the bed, which
to him, implies, he has moved down the totem pole and is a mere dog in the
house. And it does not offer nearly as
good a view of the front yard which is inconceivable to him why we would mess
with a good thing.
Charley use to love to jump up on our bed and spend hours on
end lounging on it. Most nights, he
would sleep in bed, towards the base of the mattress. Because he has gotten
older, he needs to take more of a running start to jump up and he had used
steps made to get down to help lessen the blow to his legs. With the new room
transition, the runway has been shortened.
Somehow we overlooked Charley’s need for a running leap onto
our bed and thus, he now finds himself often times, not even able to make it
onto the bed. There is nowhere to put the steps anymore either. Thus, our
beloved pet is found with his face smashed down on his doggie bed, where he
feels he doesn't belong, pouting. It is as if, in his old age, he is reverting
back to childhood. And the sad part, at 115 lbs. he is too big to pick up and
place on the bed also so that option is out!
We really have found Charley one of the best experiences we
have had together as a couple. He has provided so many laughs. His lack of
coordination has caused him to run
head on into walls, kids, our legs, and God
knows what else. We have seen Charley
get kicked off of dog training classes for being so distracting when he acts
up. He has gotten me in trouble for
sniffing too many other dogs’ butts.
Charley, at one time, jumped our fence and ran away so many times, the
neighbors two blocks away across a busy street knew him by name. It is as if Charley was a walking ball of
drama but a story, a chapter in our life that we wouldn't trade for anything.
And perhaps that is why everyone today says Happy National
Pet Day because pets truly are a joy.
If given love, discipline and respect, they are loyal, loving and
friendly. Hug your pet today, and every
day!