4/14/2020

Obsession Confession of Tessie

Puppy Tessie

     There is a little thing that’s round with lines on it, commonly used in a game with a net across a court, a tennis ball. In our home, it is known as Tessie’s toy. I think I need to be more accurate, the tennis ball is Tessie our labradoodle’s obsession!

          It started one day with a walk in the park.  We saw someone throwing a tennis ball at their dog and

Game-Face
the pet retrieving it. We took Tessie home and went down to the area in our community and threw a few to her. Instinctively she knew exactly what to do. And to our surprise, she did not want to stop. In fact, when we tried to, she cried.

     Since that day, she has a love for those balls that is beyond comprehension.  If other dogs are out, she ignores them. Her single focus is “the ball.” She is anxiously waiting for “the throw” and that is her single concern, she could care less about the other four legged critters in the area. 

     If another dog attempts to play ball with her, she is what is known as a ball hog! Yes, she rudely cuts in front of everyone, outruns dogs, sometimes literally running into them to retrieve the ball.  She is hell-bent on a mission and stops at nothing from capturing it in her mouth. She jumps, squats, flips, dives with and without grace all to capture that round bouncing ball. She then proudly runs it back with her prancey dancey gait back to you to throw it again!

     If a human being is in the vicinity, they are ignored also. Their role in her life, when outside and a tennis ball is in view is simply to throw it.  If you are do not she has no use for you in her life. She runs for the balls until her mouth is drooping, her tongue is hanging out and she looks like she is on her last leg. We have to make her stop!

     The tennis balls are in the drink cups of our golf cart. If we take Tessie on a ride in the cart, she picks up a ball and carries it in her mouth for the entire ride. She looks to the right and to the left checking out the scenery. She sits up and down admiring the yards but through it all, the ball is firmly in her mouth and she refuses to lose her grip on it no matter how long we are riding.

Notice the tennis ball on the couch?
     Within our home, because we forget that she has them in our mouth, she sneaks in with the balls.  Thus, tennis balls have been found in virtually every room in the house.  It is nothing to walk into the bathroom and find a tennis ball in the middle of the floor or see one sitting on the window sill in the living room as if it was placed there as part of the décor.

     She has garnered a reputation as the 
Tennis Ball Queen.   Those on our side of our community where we live know her well, and her 
passion. Thereby, when they see tennis balls out, as they tell us with laughter in their voices, they know Tessie has been there. The balls have become her 'calling card'. Yes, even Tessie, from time to time slips up and leaves a beloved tennis ball behind.

     Never have we ever known a dog more obsessed with playing with a ball. She brings them to you and cries and whines to play. She carries them in her mouth in the house. So if they ever stop making tennis balls, we will be in a heap of trouble and have one unhappy dog! And very unhappy owners!


4/04/2020

Savor The Time With You


It’s finally done! A book for many of my more popular blogs is now available in paperback or as a digital version on Amazon.  What a feeling of accomplishment! It only took being quarantined to find the time. What we do with empty space defines us.

It's harder to write about carefree things when the nation/world is going through a pandemic because everything else seems so trivial. And yet, life is made up of small things, details and moments that combined make for a meaningful life. Thus, perhaps writing now makes the most sense!?

I hope that those that read my blogs are taking time to examine their life during this quiet period. Never before have most of us been left to our own devices at home for so long. Your home is your comfort zone so it is the perfect place and this IS the ideal time to do a personal inventory of yourself.

Ask yourself if you have your priorities straight and if you are spending the right amount of time with each.  Is your physical, mental and spiritual health where it needs to be?  If not, Game On, set goals and then create steps to make them materialize. Stay committed. Today's date is when you should start new patterns of behavior, routine habits that are healthier ways of living. Three weeks of learned behavior improves your odds of making it permanent.

Whether it is finishing a book, holding a loved one longer or savoring a cup of coffee, do it now. Cherish the  moments instead of whining about what is not.  At the end of the day, hopefully you will discover there is nobody better to be quarantined with than you!

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